Friday, January 23, 2015

What positivity does to you

It builds you. It lifts you up, even on the most messed up day. It helps you wake up in the morning, and it drives you every single day. It makes you look at the world in a different light. It makes you worry less, it drives you to fix things instead of whining about it.

I feel like earlier this month, I was filled with so much negative-ness, it makes me hate the world. With the lost of Oyen to add to that, I resented even having to get up and go to work.

Anyways, what I'm saying is, negativity consumes you. It destroys your relationship with people. It drives them away. You know why? Because negativity spreads.

So why be negative, when it's so much better to have a positive outlook on everything?

Okay, to be honest, on my worst days, I mope around and roll around with negative thoughts it's unhealthy. I want to reduce that now. :)

I think the best way to do that is to start being thankful. One small thought, per day. What are you thankful for? It makes you think about how lucky you are, compared to other people. And that, is not a bad thing.

The next thing is, value your relationships. Value your family, think about how they've helped you through difficult times, and try to make them happy. I believe that if you make people happy, you will somehow find satisfaction in that, and you too, will be happy. Value your friends, as these are the people who somehow knows you best. They listen to you whine, and if you ever need a good laugh, they never fail to entertain. Value your other half, think of how happy they make you feel, and always seek comfort from that feeling. These are the things that will make you think and feel, like you're never alone. You won't feel lonely.

Get things going guys. We are always in the search for happiness, but really, it is all from within. :)

Be kind to others, give help whenever you can, do a good deed once in a while. You will feel happy.

And remember, if all else fails, talk to God. Seek comfort in knowing that he's always there, and things will get better if you work for it.

Spread positivity and love, everyone! It doesn't cost you a thing.


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